Friday, July 11, 2008

Want To Avoid Breaking Up? The Instant Turn-Around To Making Up Instead


When it looks like your relationship might be breaking up, it's easy to panic. If you want to avoid breaking up, though, you must avoid that sensation of panic. It will push you into doing and saying things which could kill your relationship stone dead.

To avoid breaking up, you must understand that when your partner starts talking about breaking up, it is usually a cry for help. There is something happening in the relationship which needs attention, and your partner is letting you know.

There will obviously be a disruption while things get sorted out. It is really important at this time to avoid the common relationship-destroying mistakes that people make.

Don't keep pursuing your partner. Don't call them, don't text them, don't go places where they usually hang out, don't ask mutual friends how they are doing - just completely let go.

Anything you do from a position of pursuit is guaranteed to be a relationship-breaker.

You must make your partner come to you. It is vital that you make all the right moves to smooth their return path, without once appearing to care either way whether they come back or not.

This might sound difficult, but there is actually a time-proven formula for bringing your ex running back, begging to be given another chance.

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It's Easy To Be Romantic!

Friday, July 4, 2008

Save Your Relationship - How To Stop A Break-Up

Many people don't know how to stop a break-up from happening. As soon as things get tricky, and one partner says something about breaking up, it's as though both partners are just hypnotised - neither of them knows how to stop the break-up from becoming a reality.

Time and again, I see people walking away from relationships which clearly still have a lot of love present on both sides. It may seem to you that your relationship is over, for example if your partner has left you and is not taking your calls. I assure you, nothing could be further from the truth!

Firstly, when things get fraught, you must avoid the worst relationship killers - those mistakes that turn a wobble into a train wreck.

Next, remember that to stop the break-up from becoming permanent, you must keep a level head. Don't panic! You can save your relationship.

There are some simple steps to take, once you understand how to save your relationship. You can stop a break-up in its tracks, even it seems to be well on the way.

In fact, even if your ex has changed the locks and gotten an unlisted number, you can still get your ex back, using some little-known methods based on subconscious psychology.

In fact, guys, if you want to get your girlfriend back, there is an almost foolproof process you can follow, which will melt away the resentments and allow your girlfriend's true love for you to return to the surface. Master this process, and you can get back with your girlfriend faster than you can possibly imagine!

For a bit of fun, drop your questions and dilemmas in at EasyToBeRomantic.com - I'll answer them here as and when I can.

Remember - no matter how hopeless it looks, you can save your relationship. Get your girlfriend back, and have the life you deserve!

It's Easy To Be Romantic!