When it looks like your relationship might be breaking up, it's easy to panic. If you want to avoid breaking up, though, you must avoid that sensation of panic. It will push you into doing and saying things which could kill your relationship stone dead.
To avoid breaking up, you must understand that when your partner starts talking about breaking up, it is usually a cry for help. There is something happening in the relationship which needs attention, and your partner is letting you know.
There will obviously be a disruption while things get sorted out. It is really important at this time to avoid the common relationship-destroying mistakes that people make.
Don't keep pursuing your partner. Don't call them, don't text them, don't go places where they usually hang out, don't ask mutual friends how they are doing - just completely let go.
Anything you do from a position of pursuit is guaranteed to be a relationship-breaker.
You must make your partner come to you. It is vital that you make all the right moves to smooth their return path, without once appearing to care either way whether they come back or not.
This might sound difficult, but there is actually a time-proven formula for bringing your ex running back, begging to be given another chance.
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